Do you ever get the feeling that nothing ever lasts anymore? All around you couples are breaking up and asking for advice on how to get your ex back. Perhaps you yourself have just gone through another bad break-up and wonder if you will ever feel alright again. Though the skies can look pretty gloomy after having your heart broken (yet again!), the human heart is surprisingly resilient. And things will eventually get better in time.

But what if you want to get your ex back? What if, even after a couple of months of trying to move on, all you can ever think about is how to get your ex wife back? Or how to get your ex girlfriend back? What if, just what if, there isn't anybody else out there for you but her (cheesy as it may sound)?

Unfortunately, love is not some sort of statistic we can figure out by doing the math. There are no "tricks to get her back". But there are some things you can do and some things that you should avoid that might help you get back on track - to your woman's heart.

Please Don't

-Don't call her every five minutes or leave ten messages on her phone every day.

-Don't camp out on her porch or wait for her to come home each night.

-Don't tell her you'll die without her. This sounds scary. Plus, it's guilt-inducing and might affect her psychologically. -Don't go into a blind rage when she starts seeing someone else. Reacting badly might hurt your chances of winning her back.

-Don't beg.

Please Do

- Give her space.

- Respect her wishes. If you really love her.

- Continue to live a healthy, normal life. Your ex will not be glad to see you turn into a drunkard/hermit.

- Continue to be the man she fell in love with. Treat her well. Just because you broke up, doesn't mean you get to treat her like the plague.

- Be civil. Break-ups are never easy.