If you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back, the best thing to do is to NOT act desperate about getting back with her. Also if she has hurt you, the worst thing to do is to hurt her too and seek revenge. If you have spent time thinking about it and you realized that you really love her then instead of hurting her or making her jealous, you could try to work out a way to rekindle the lost love. There are only 2 things that you need to do to win her back.

First, get her back by reflecting on the cause of the break-up. Are you becoming too protective? Are you giving her room to grow? Do you spend enough time for her? Do you make her feel special? Do you appreciate the things that she does? Do you constantly remind her and show her of your love? Does she have a need that you didn't give? These are some questions that you need to reflect on in order for you to discover the best way on how to get her back.

Second, get her back by being true to your feeling and letting her know of your feelings. Bringing her flowers, bringing her home and taking her to dinner may have won her the first time but this time these things will not matter especially if she has already left the relationship. Win her back by being a mature and emotionally sensitive guy. Tell her in all sincerity that you have realized that you love her and that you want her back. Don't hold these important words. These may be all she wants to hear.

These are 2 steps are not easy. They require you to be courageous. Men believe that when they are out of touch with their feelings, they are real men but this is not true. Real men are sensitive and real men are those that deserve a second chance. If you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back the fastest way, you have to be a real man -- face the reasons why the relationship ended and be since and courageous to tell your true feelings to the girl that you truly love.